Attitude …
Attitude is the readiness of the psyche to act or react in a certain way…
I had an experience of brutal corporate injustice
Not my own but I read the charge sheet.
And like every time I am about to cause a ruckus
I call my mother and let her know
Aye deh going and come and complain me
And main sorry
Because ….
I was so enraged …The readiness of my psyche was to react…
And like her wise self she said… you don’t have the attitude to win this fight you are fighting
I heard the words but I wasn’t ready to listen until maybe a day after … when I called again and said … I am sorry for my disposition yesterday.
She said you don’t have the right temperament to deal with this situation. You are too emotional and that makes your stance wobbly. All they have to do when you present in that state is trigger you more.
Turn off your emotions and turn on your intelligence. Life is not fair- in life you will encounter an infinite amount of conflict.
You can not use your emotional self to resolve most conflict. You have to employ your intelligence. This is life this is who people are.
Now you have to prepare for the worst and use your intelligence to defend your self and your love one.
Steady Micheleina – you need to craft yourself to be seady- use the emotions to fuel your steadiness
Life is not an Oprah article – life is life
****You have to take your heart out of your Chest to play chest ****
Preparing to win means you have to come to the fight as emotionally steady as possible. Or else they will use that emotional self-righteousness to sell what’s wrong about you.
